Tuesday, August 03, 2004
Gender roles and thoughts pt. 1
Well I was surfing the worldwide web today at work and came across this fanciful little article. Quite interesting how the public perception of the role of a "good housewife" has changed in almost fifty years. Here's the text of the article:
The Good Wife's Guide
Housekeeping Monthly - May 13, 1955
- Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
- Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
- Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
- Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
- Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
- Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
- Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
- Be happy to see him.
- Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
- Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.
- Your goal: To try and make sure your home is a place of peace, order, and tranquillity where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.
- Don't greet him with complaints and problems.
- Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
- Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
- Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
A good wife always knows her place.
My goodness, if this got printed in a popular magazine today imagine the consequences for the publisher. Lawsuits would inevitably be brought, angry letters certainly, and perhaps even a national media frenzy.
I'm not saying I agree with the article as we find ourselves in this contemporary culture, I just find it interesting how far our society has moved (please note I haven't said regressed) away from this formula. While I don't embrace the concepts and theology of those within the egalitarian camp, I must say it si striking to see the difference we find in our homes between this example and where we are today.
Over the next day or so I'm going to hash out my position on the matters of gender roles and the theological reasoning for my position. Should be interesting I suppose. This was just a little food for thought.
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